We just passed the month of LOVE it's also the month I tied the knot with my Knight. If you are married for a long as I am (or longer) you will know that LOVE or being IN-LOVE is short lived. The Honeymoon stage and being Ga...Ga... eyes over each other fades and sometimes die out, but it can be revived.
This is a topic we do not discuss with ANYONE. "Ons praat nie uit ons slaap kamer nie". Keep it behind close doors neh!! and suffer in silence.
NO MORE suffering for this LOVE child and it can work for you too.
This is what I did:-
So, I did pick up some kg's but having kids is no joke hey... so I learnt to love all of my kg and just work with it.
I made peace that I am no longer tight and toned with a few trail track or hale damage aka "streatch marks". That is my proof of becoming a woman or child bearer
Then decided to take control of what I say to myself (that little voice in my head) she's not very kind once she starts. I told her "Girlfriend, move over cos I no longer will take your Sh#@%t I will LOVE Me..Myself and I with or without your guilt trips you put me on.
After that I found a way of mixing with the kinda sistas that get me and know what a challenge it is to be a "Super Woman" and also to pep talk me so now and then when I go off with that conversation in my head again.
I hooked up with some cool bath & body products to pamper and explore the new ME.
Then I got some education about my Sexuality and Sensuality and HELL was that a lekker sesson.
All I am saying both of us are smiling :-) and after 23yrs it's like falling inLOVE all ova again.
So hook yourself up with people who can help you improve your life and add value to it. There are different people for different areas in your life. But for now I can be your LADY LOLLA of LOVE that will help you to Spice Up your LOVE Life.
My advice is..... B U mwah :-)
This is what I did:-
So, I did pick up some kg's but having kids is no joke hey... so I learnt to love all of my kg and just work with it.
I made peace that I am no longer tight and toned with a few trail track or hale damage aka "streatch marks". That is my proof of becoming a woman or child bearer
Then decided to take control of what I say to myself (that little voice in my head) she's not very kind once she starts. I told her "Girlfriend, move over cos I no longer will take your Sh#@%t I will LOVE Me..Myself and I with or without your guilt trips you put me on.
After that I found a way of mixing with the kinda sistas that get me and know what a challenge it is to be a "Super Woman" and also to pep talk me so now and then when I go off with that conversation in my head again.
I hooked up with some cool bath & body products to pamper and explore the new ME.
Then I got some education about my Sexuality and Sensuality and HELL was that a lekker sesson.
All I am saying both of us are smiling :-) and after 23yrs it's like falling inLOVE all ova again.
So hook yourself up with people who can help you improve your life and add value to it. There are different people for different areas in your life. But for now I can be your LADY LOLLA of LOVE that will help you to Spice Up your LOVE Life.
My advice is..... B U mwah :-)
